Recently a teacher said to me, “I have had three husbands
and all three have been passive, submissive, and dependent on
me to make all decisions and govern everything. Why do I
attract such type men?” I asked her whether she had known
that her second husband was the effeminate type, and she
replied, “Of course not.
Had I known, I would not have married him.” Apparently
she had not learned anything from the first mistake. The
trouble was with her own personality make-up. She was very
masculine, domineering, and unconsciously wanted someone
who would be submissive and passive so that she could play
the dominant role. All this was unconscious motivation, and
her subconscious picture attracted to her what she subjectively
wanted.
She had to learn to break the pattern by adopting the right
prayer process.